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I am a Recovering Fat Person

I have been writing to You for a few months now and I have to admit it, I really love it.

I don’t even know who You are, and there is a part of me that would love to know who You are and then there is a part of me that has come to the conclusion that it doesn’t matter as long as You and I both are there and enjoying this ‘relationship’.

Doug and I began this journey as a healing process as well as a growth process. I call it a healing process because believe it or not, I truly believe that our past eating and activity behavior was an illness in some form.

Some call that illness laziness.

Some call it complacency.

Some call it ignorance.

But regardless what you call it.

It definitely was gluttonous.

We simply ate more than we used and therefore became fat.

Fast forward to today. WOW, what a difference. But it has been a long journey. We were not always overweight. We were, by most people’s standards, average. What most people forget is that you don’t all of a sudden become fat. You add just a little more to your plate and park just a little closer to the door. You add one extra glass of wine to the meal and you take one less trip up the stairs. You don’t look at how much is really on your plate and you spend the weekend watching movies instead of raking the leaves.

The last thing I wanted to be was a reformed fatty that spends her days critiquing other people’s eating habits or their activity level. After all it doesn’t affect me, so why would it bother me. Well, sometimes it does. I see some small steps that we should have taken sooner and recognize that in other people, but if you are not ready to make little changes you simply wont be ready for big changes.

So, why do I write,mr. and mrs. morneau and why does it help me? I am not entirely sure, except that after being on a healthier journey for four years, it is a large part of who we are. We just had our four year anniversary with our trainers. On our two year anniversary we took them out to dinner. No pictures, not critique, no rules, just relax, enjoy, eat and drink. BUT, the one thing we did do, was ask them what they truly thought about us when we started.

The truth kind of hurt. They truly were afraid to take us on as clients because we were so big. They told us that they were really concerned that we wouldn’t make it and they actually never dreamed that we would still be at it two years later. It has been two years since then and we are still pushing strong.

 

I actually love sharing the things we have learned.

Nutritionally, we had no idea how to eat.

We were completely unaware of portion size.

We did not know about where our calorie count should be for the day, or week.

We didn’t even know what should be a healthy weight or BMI.

I love researching more and more to help other people that, like us, just don’t know what we don’t know.

As the year comes to an end, do yourself a favour and have a look at yourself. Not a critical look, an honest look.

What can you do to be just a little healthier? It is really important to be honest with yourself and realize that if there is room for improvement, it may be uncomfortable and that’s ok.

Really it is!

Knowing is not enough; we must apply.
Willing is not enough; we must do.
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

CANADA VS. UNITED STATES

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Over the years, we have owned a lot of their products and will continue to do so for a long time. They have a great blog on their site and I found this particular post really funny.
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This seems to me to be a very typical view of us Canadians and I can actually say that most of these points don’t apply to us. Partly because we are located on the west coast of the country and we are the only part of the country that doesn’t get the awful winters that the rest of the country gets. Also, comparing Manitoba to the rest of Canada is like comparing Florida to Minnesota. Ok, that may be a little extreme, sorry.

Canada vs United States

Travel is really good for the mind, body, and soul. You learn so much that it is hard to put into words. You learn about different food, people, culture, weather, traditions, and of course language. You don’t have to go far to notice the difference, even from one town to the next, there are differences.

Get out of your own back yard and experience something new, somewhere new. Expand your mind, you will be surprised what you will learn.


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Should You Exercise When Sick

It’s funny how you seem to come across articles just when you need them.

We have had colds in our house this week, and we always seem to ask this question. Now, we have a great reference to use.

The biggest lesson here is to listen to your body.

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How Do You Avoid the Chaos When it Comes to Meals

I don’t know when eating became such a problem. Oh wait, yes I do. It was when I moved out, became an adult, and mommy didn’t do it for me anymore.

Right, I forgot. The next phase was when I was trying to please a whole family and their wants and desires. This one won’t eat veggies, that one loves veggies. This one loves cheese, that one won’t touch eggs. I remember one day in sheer frustration sitting our whole family down and asking them to come up with a meal that everyone loves….I’m still waiting. So once you get over the “sit there until your plate is clean, and I don’t want the dog eating it for you” stage, you get to eat whatever you want, RIGHT? Well, not so much.

One of the things that I have learned is that although we thought we were eating healthy, we were not. I think most of that comes from lack of education. We tend to eat the way we were brought up and our parents did the same. So poor eating habits were unknowingly passed down. Add that to a whole new way of living, in front of a computer, in a car, sitting a lot, and very little regular exercise. There is a whole generation that thinks that going to the gym is silly, just go and be active. That used to be a useful thought, but our world has changed too much.

We don’t walk very much, we don’t do physical labour as a rule, we sleep less, eat too much too fast, and our brains never turn off. It’s not all bad, it’s just that we need to adjust our thinking so that we can enjoy our down time more.

One of the ways that helps is spending a little time on your weekend, whenever that is, to plan your week a little more. Planning your food, as strange as that may sound, is really a great idea. Obviously stuff will come up and plans will change, but if you can stay just one or two steps ahead of the game, you may actually find that your eating habits can clean up.

Take time to plan.

1. Spend a few minutes looking at your week’s schedule. How much time will you have each day for meal prep? How much time do you have to plan, prep, eat, and clean it up?

2. How many meals do you plan to make at home, including breakfast, lunch as well as supper?

3. How much money do you want to put out on food? Prepackaged meals vs fast food.

4. When do you plan to shop for your food? All at once for the week? Each day?

Now that you have done a little planning, let’s do some practical things to make your meal prep just a little easier.

1. Make a list for shopping. Put it on the fridge, computer, electronic or paper, just make it accessible and don’t forget it.

2. Buy family size packages. Even if you are family of two, buying larger portions is cheaper.

3. As you prepare your meals, plan for leftovers. When cooking your protein, make sure you make extra. Now, you have another meal started with no extra time.

4. Cut up extra veggies. If you have them cut up, it is a lot simpler to grab them for lunch the next day or the day after.

5. When cleaning up dinner, portion out the extras for another meal. Prepackaged meals made from home are great when you need to have another meal and you don’t have time to prep.

6. Prepare to freeze them for extended prep. Individual portions defrost quicker than large portions and you can pull them out as you need them.

The most important thing is to enjoy your food. If you have prepared your meals in the right portion size, allowing enough time to enjoy them, even leftovers can be great.

Part of the secret of a success in life is to eat what you like and let the food fight it out inside. –  Mark Twain